2017 was a year of change for us, with many members of the family moving on to the next stage of their lives, or signalling that they were ready to do so. Mr 25 got his first career job - one which required an overseas move. Miss 23 meanwhile returned from her overseas adventures, enrolled in a PhD programme, found a part-time job connected to her future career goals, and has now permanently left home. Both Mr 25 and Miss 23 gained a serious significant other during the year - yet another change to the family dynamic. Mr 20 was the outlier to the change theme, just continuing on with his university studies and existing part-time job.
For Miss 17, 2017 was the year where it felt like she bade farewell to her childhood. Trampolining had been a constant since she was 9 and as she got older it became a bigger part of her life. But she retired from competition mid-year, and by year end resigned her coaching job as well. She passed the second stage of the tiered drivers licence system, meaning she can drive without supervision - another step towards adulthood. Homeschooling went well (barring a few odd hiccups, mostly with statistics) and she completed five courses which I titled English Literature, Film History and Analysis, Introductory Statistics, New Zealand History - An Overview, and Animal Behaviour II. However, I often felt that we were going through the motions, and that she was ready for a new challenge, one that didn't involve me. So while she technically has one more year of homeschooling left, her decision to undertake a university preparation course instead (the easiest way of gaining admission to the university of her choice for 2019, since they will not look at her homeschooling transcript - it's only now that I realise how easy the university admission process was for the older 3) definitely feels like the right one. I'm not entirely sure what we would have done had she opted to continue homeschooling for another year.
One thing that didn't change - unless change means intensify - this year was the interest in birding . It continued to play a major role in Miss 17's life - and mine. She attended two teen birding camps, plus a university summer school programme in zoology, and a short plant identification course. Attendance at the two courses was an outgrowth of her interest in birds. The start of a local banding project gave her the hands-on work she craved. She continued to edit the local newsletter and write for both the national ornithology magazine and the Young Birders magazine. A big achievement was having a short paper accepted for publication in a peer-reviewed scientific journal. Meanwhile I took on the key leadership role in our local birding group. Together Miss 17 and I attended the national ornithology conference, and later in the year went on a birding road-trip with a couple of her friends. Altogether she observed 137 birds during the year, 19 of which were 'lifers' (ones she'd never seen or heard before). My figures were a little more modest (114 and 7 respectively) but more than enough to keep me happy.
For me personally, 2017 was a better year than 2016. The worst symptoms of my health issues were largely under control and I only suffered a handful of major flares all year. Apart from homeschooling and birding, reading occupied a lot of my time. I somehow got through 172 titles last year - being a fast reader helps! There were a few disappointments among my selections, but most I'd happily read again or recommend to others. If I was giving a prize to the book that impacted me the most, or whose message stayed with me the longest it would probably be a tie between Angie Thomas's The Hate U Give, Margaret Atwood's The Handmaids Tale and This is How it Always is by Laurie Frankel.
For our family as a whole the big event of the year was the completion - finally - of the earthquake repairs (and re-repairs of the unsatisfactory first repairs). We had to move out of the house for six weeks (the packing and unpacking was a major job I hope to not have to repeat anytime soon) and there were lots of unwanted hassles but, more than six years after the most damaging quake, it is so nice to have our home fully functioning again, and to be finished dealing with the earthquake repair bureaucracy.
The year ended on a bit of a sad note with the passing of an honorary family member. Basil lived with us for nearly two years (while his family was forced into a no-pet rental as their home was rebuilt following the earthquakes) and we continued to have him for occasional visits. It seems that he ruptured a disk, probably the result of the spread of his bone cancer, thus rendering him paralyzed.
Looking ahead to 2018 and I doubt I'll be blogging as often. This blog came about for two reasons. One was to connect with a group of bloggers who all homeschooled and had girls of a similar age to Miss 17. I learnt a lot from them, and wanted to contribute more fully to their informal community. The other was to help rectify the shortage of homeschooling blogs that focused on high school. Since I'll no longer be homeschooling (assuming Miss 17 is accepted into the university prep course that is) there won't be much for me to blog about! At this stage I think I'll post quick monthly updates. If nothing else I'd like to document the process of transition from homeschooling to beyond - for both Miss 17 and for me.
Linking to Homeschool Highlights.